We saw the pick me women when they came out to indirectly defend the #metoo abusive men of the Greek showbiz claiming that they have not had a similar incident, implying that they were so moral that they did not cause it, when they praised the talent and successful career of the abuser , implying that this was the evidence that attracted the victims, or when they commented on the timing of the revelation, implying that it's all done for publicity. We see another form of pick me girl in the recent viral video of a politician, with references to the "feminine" nature. But what it tells us is nothing more than a social construction, all the things we've been told a "good" girl must do to win the fairy tale prince. That our appearance, behavior and ability to follow the rules will ensure it. That girls should focus on the desires of a group of men instead of their own identity and personal development.

But we have taken many steps and fortunately as a society now, we take for granted the right of individual self-determination, that everyone deserves to be treated with respect and dignity and that diversity is acceptable.